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Whether you choose to coach with me, follow one of my e-programmes or books, or simply implement the following 5 Top Tips to Setting Achievable Goals I know you’ll also then have the opportunity to be one of the people who email me next year to tell me of the success you’ve created in your life simply by following through on your goals.
5 Top Tips to Setting Achievable Goals
Step One: 'Begin With The End In Mind' Stephen Cover wrote in habit 2 of his ground breaking book, 'The 7 Habit's of Highly Effective People', that you should begin each task with a clear idea of what you want your outcome to be. Begin that now with the title ‘Achievements 2010' somewhere you're sure to read it often (fridge door, iPhone, screen saver, etc) – and rather than list down what you’d like to do, make this a list of what you will have achieved by the end of 2010. For example, if you’d like to learn Spanish write, ‘learned Spanish’ and follow it up with the action below in Step Two.
Step Two: Get Motivated! The more motivated you are, the more likely it is you will follow through and achieve your goals. Making it emotional, an event you’ll want to remember for years to come will increase that. Write your goal with feeling; for example, ‘learned Spanish’, can become, ‘took weekly Spanish classes and enjoyed a holiday in Madrid, and it was fantastic to understand and be able to talk with people in Spanish whilst I was there - I feel absolutely fantastic’. Increasing the emotional impact of what success will bring will increase motivation. If you haven't already watched DVD ‘The Secret’ (www.thesecret.tv) get a copy now and learn more about ‘the law of attraction’.
Step Three: Write It Down! Research going back more than 50 years always comes back with the same results; people who write down their goals achieve a higher degree of success than those that don't. If this is new to you, simply getting this new habit will dramatically increase your chances of success. Diarize your steps. Record your results. Keep a Success Journal of your journey. Last year I gave diaries to 10 subscribers of my eNewsletter ‘Your Best Life’ with only one proviso, that they use them, and here's one of the most emails I received as a result…
Step Four: See It The Way You Want It! Visualize; see what you want happening in your imagination everyday, and in fact several times throughout each day. It’s often said how we get what we focus on. By making sure that focus is on what you do want to happen, then your mind and body will be in sync to ensure you achieve it. Think of visualization as a ‘mental rehearsal’ – athletes have done it for decades, CEO's and entrepreneurs spend thousands being coached how to do it, and this year bank employees, school teachers and students have been just some of the groups of people I've been employed to take through the steps to this simple technique. Spend time visualizing living what you want to have IN ADVANCE, every day, several times a day.
Step Five: Take Action - EVERY DAY!! Take action every day. The most important thing is to do something - the worst thing you could do would be nothing at all. Take big steps, small steps, or intermediary steps – but take steps, a baby never learned to walk by not walking. Walk. Plan, support yourself, get a coach, enlist the help of a colleague, family member, or a friend when needed, and take the steps you know you need to take. It’s like joining the dots on a paper; individually they may be isolated and mean little, yet by joining them together you get a picture, a stronger meaning.
PS: Above all, follow through on your plans for 2010. See yourself bigger, taller, more than you were in 2009 - and look forward to growing into the new you during 2010. Keep in touch and remember, I'm waiting to hear from you in December 2010!!
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